How to send out the first message to a trans woman?

How do you date a transgender woman? Is there dos and don’ts if you are to invite a transgender girl out? What should do say in the first message? If you are one of the male majorities, maybe you have met transgender females on many online transgender hookup apps. You checked her pictures, profiles and common interest. So you find one common interest and plan to open with it. However, you didn’t tell her what you want in a relationship or what are you going to do during the first meeting. Try to see your first message as a card. This is a way to introduce yourself and explore possibilities.

In your first message, try to include a brief description about your common interest, your phone number, etc. If you want to send her some photos of you, it’s totally up to you. However, make sure you choose one that is taken recently, but not from ten years ago. Sending out nudity, photos of your pets or your ex-girlfriend is not a good idea. Do not pretend you are familiar with her if you are not, otherwise you will be deleted from her friend list very soon.

Besides, transgender females usually wouldn’t ask for extra photos, stupid questions or proposals. If they are doing so, they only want to see if there is chemistry between you. Do not send sexually explicit content messages. It only approves you are interested in nothing but getting into her pants, instead of getting to know her. Here are a few examples for bad messages:

“Hot man looking for sexy ladies for some hot adventures.” “In desperate need of a hot lady to spend the night.”

It is disturbing to be treated as a sexual object or a piece of meat. If the main cause for you to date a transgender female is to sleep with her, there are many special sites providing such service. Beside from that, using the right pronouns is a good idea. Some transgender females don’t like to be called as tranny, shemale, ladyboy, etc. What is more, before you refer to anyone, make sure you know the right pronouns. Here is another way to send out the first message: I noticed your profile on a lgbt dating app and I would like to get to know you if it is possible. I am 30 years old, living in New York. I am a data processor. I like reading, traveling, writing and exercising. If you want to get to know mor about me, you can reply my message. Looking forward to your reply.

This message is simple and direct without any romantic gesture. If I receive such message, I would take it seriously. He told me a little about her interest, which gives me some impression about her personalities. You want to stand out from the crowd and you certainly don’t want to be arrogant. You need to be sincere in your words and cut straight to the point. There is no need to mention your past relationships, painful divorces or sexual fantasies. Focus more on yourself and on the person you are interested. This is the absolute key.